By Sarah Skrydstrup
Tonight, three exciting Toronto-based authors will be taking part in a round table discussion about their recent memoirs. Plum Johnson will present They Left Us Everything, Lynn Thomson will introduce Birding with Yeats and Priscila Uppal will bring us Projection: Encounters with My Runaway Mother. A common theme in each of these memoirs is family. Plum, Lynn and Priscila all explore the good, the bad, the uncomfortable, the happy and the sad of family life and relationships.
In They Left Us Everything, Plum Johnson’s childhood home plays as important a role as any of the actual characters included in her story. It is stuck in the past and brimming with memories. Each outdated newspaper and flyer, all the kitsch and old wallpaper become essential to her understanding of her parents. The book also explores the complicated emotions that come with caring for elderly parents. Plum highlights the importance of reconciling past relationships, and suggests that this can be done through a preservation of one’s family history. You can visit her website for tips and tricks on preserving your own family history with a memory book.
In Birding with Yeats, Lynn Thomson learns to let go. Throughout her memoir, Lynn reflects on motherhood, her relationship with her son and finally, her relationship with herself. Lynn’s bird-watching excursions with her son Yeats demonstrate the positive effect that the outdoor world has on their lives. While a lot of her memoir focuses on the mother-son relationship, the other aspect that is significant is Lynn’s job as a bookseller. The month that her husband opened his bookshop, Ben McNally Books, is the same month that Yeats begins high school. These events prove to be life changing for both Lynn and Yeats. As Yeats gets older, he prefers to do things on his own, and this is something that Lynn comes to accept in her book. Letting go of your child can be difficult, but Lynn illustrates that is can also be beautiful.
Priscila Uppal, like Plum, is also a caretaker. Priscila’s mother abandoned her family after her father became a quadriplegic, leaving her to be his sole care provider. Projection focuses on her relationship with her mother and their meeting in Brazil. Priscila candidly shares their unusual relationship, analyzing each of her mother’s words and actions. Priscila’s book also includes several photographs from her meeting with her mother. Each photo is captioned with a very brief description, but as the reader knows, the image is loaded with much more meaning. A picture is worth a thousand words.
Plum, Lynn and Priscila’s experiences and relationships with their families help to shape them into the women they are today. Tonight’s discussion is something that truly shouldn’t be missed. You might come to see your own life (and familial relationships) in a new light.
Sarah Skrydstrup is currently the Communications Intern at IFOA and is completing her MA in Literatures of Modernity at Ryerson University. She enjoys reading short stories and her favourite novel is Trainspotting by Irvine Welsh.